Abdullah Sweileh
We can often guess what is inside the closed circumstance by looking at its source or external features. Sometimes we guess carefully, and sometimes we stand unable to understand, so we resort to reading body language, or analyzing the situation with the eye of psychology. But whatever our skill in guessing, the truth remains blocked until the envelopes are opened.
Human curiosity in nature is inherently inherent. It is an instinct that drives us to discover beyond the surface, even if it is not our affairs. We do not dazzle clear things as much as it attracts mystery, as closed things always carry value in their folds, or at least this is what we envision, what is exposed before us does not attract attention, as if his clarity lost the importance.
Some people are not satisfied with watching a movie or video, but rather thinking about the scenes: Who is photographed? How to produce? What is the camera used? This curiosity may be seen as an indication of intelligence or creative sense, but it becomes a disturbing behavior when it exceeds its limits and turns into intrusion.
The circumstances in our lives are not only paper, every person we meet is a closed circumstance. Every situation, every opportunity, every story is not told. We try to guess its content, but we are not always authorized to open it. When we are not given this right, we are anxious, and curiosity may turn madness, leads to shocks or disappointments.
– The question here: Can we live without curiosity? Imagine a world where we do not seek to find out what we are ignorant, will it be quieter? Maybe yes, and perhaps not. Because curiosity sometimes reveals a fact that we do not want to know, and sometimes it opens great doors to us. Therefore, the solution does not fall into the depth of curiosity, but rather to refine it, and direct it towards what is developing thought and remains respecting the privacy of others.
Do not make your obsession with the unknown deprive you of clear appreciation. Do not imprison yourself in the circle of “what is behind the envelope”, so forget to enjoy what is in front of you. Moderation in curiosity, such as moderation in everything, is the key to acceptance and balance, with the soul and people.
– At the conclusion of my talk about the closed circumstance, I want to address that excessive curiosity does not make a better world, but rather makes an outcast person, people are not comfortable with his proximity, nor is he comfortable with himself.