M. Saba Al -Asfour
The mother sought a paper and a pen to write her needs for the blessed month of Ramadan for the function, so she prepared a list of foods that she will buy from the groceries according to the tastes of her husband and her children, this wants a samosa with cheese and those chicken coils and that meat broth, and so on, and began to prepare another list of her own for anti -anger and tension in preparation for their grumbling and many requirements.
I thought the mother in Ramadan, which is no longer the month of approaching God as much as it was introduced to the manifestations of tuning, food, costumes, and bombings that were not related to it, and his values turned into contradiction to become as if it were customs and traditions, so asceticism became hypocrisy, generosity is extravagant, and simplicity is wasteful, so a idea in her head and her family is different. The month of laziness to the month of work, and from a heavy burden to an abundant flood.
The next day, she agreed with her husband to take advantage of the blessing of the month and his preference to restore his true manifestations to instill his divine morals in the family and its spiritual upgrading with simple practices that do not weigh their shoulders and do not change from the general atmosphere of it, but rather by introducing valuable behaviors in their daily program. And the first to be entitled to your giving are the members of your direct family, so what will you present to them?
Everyone was surprised by the question, and they seemed distress and grumbling.
The family acknowledged that there are two types of works that they have to do, the first is spiritual, such as reading the Qur’an, supplications and prayers, which is a matter of each individual who chooses what suits him, and the other is a home that burden the mother and the worker, such as preparing food for breakfast and suhoor meals and the accompanying cleaning, arrangement and washing, and this must be done together.
They all agreed that this month be under the title “Our Ramadan is not” to enhance the value of cooperation, participation and giving, so each of them was determined according to their age and its capabilities to perform a task and gain skill and adhere to them throughout the month to reduce the burden on their mother, their father and the worker.
