D. Amal Al-Jowder
At that moment when you learned that you had the disease, there is no doubt that hundreds of thoughts crowded into your head, rejecting that news. I have cancer. No. Why me? Fear. Anxiety. All of the above is normal. In the end, you are a weak human being in a house of trial with no help or strength. Despite that, there is an undeniable truth: You are strong with God’s help, power, and strength. Stronger than illness, fear, and all the challenges you may face, for God Almighty does not burden a soul beyond what it can bear.
Breast cancer is not the end of life, but rather the beginning of a new journey to discover yourself, your strength, and your patience. It is a test for the soul, and at the same time an opportunity to renew faith in God, and to redefine beauty, success, and victory. Every scar on your body is a badge of courage. Every treatment session is a step towards recovery. Every moment of weakness is evidence that you are a human being, in pain, but you do not give up. We have seen women turn pain into hope, tears into smiles, and despair into inspiring projects that serve others. Express your feelings, do not be ashamed of your fatigue, and do not hide your fear. It’s natural, so share it with your family and friends, talk about it, and allow your loved ones to be part of your journey. Support does not weaken you, and requesting it when needed is evidence of strength, not weakness. What is important is knowing when to ask for it and from whom?
Remember that true beauty is not measured by the standards of a mortal body, but by a positive spirit that shines despite the darkness. Femininity is not removed by removing some female organs, but rather is manifested in every look of tenderness and every word of hope. You are not just a body, but you are a creature honored by God with the breath of His Spirit… a creature composed of a mind, a heart, a soul, and a body. Remember that every part of your being needs care. Your mind needs science and knowledge, and your heart needs the remembrance of God to be reassured and remove the fear and panic of illness. Your soul needs to be close to its Creator and Creator, for He knows it best, so strengthen your faith in Him.
* Founding member and advisor to the Friends of Health Association
