* Ibn al -Qayyim said in his book The Benefits: “The Lord, glory be to Him, does not prevent his believer servant from the world, unless he gives him better than him, and benefits him.” Often we believe that we have not improved walking in some paths, and we did not improve in some situations, but rather we did not choose the bright images that benefit us in our religion and our world, and perhaps we were able to lose some opportunities, and we did not realize that God Almighty is the one who appreciates the good, and he is the one who chooses for us. Therefore, we call in the supplication of Istikharah: “Oh God, I take you with your knowledge, and I will hold you with your ability, and I ask you for the great please, for you know and do not know, and you can not be able, and you are the science of the unseen, O God, if you know that this matter (and calls it a particular) is better for me in my religion and my pension and the consequence of my command, then he will go to me, then bless me in it, So distract him from me and distract me from him, and he appreciated the good for me where he was, then he was satisfied with it.
* After one of the programs, we decided to give a small notebook, and I chose to write this phrase on it: “The effect of your inspiring story will remain immortal in life.” This is for my deep belief that each of us is able to make an inspiring story in his worldly life, a story related to the sincerity of his intentions and the purity of his bed, and his ability to have a sustainable impact on life, and to be an influential individual in the lives of others, and inspired by others in doing good. People see him and they are rushing to make him use, benefit from his experiences, and work with him at good stations. We need to be a “impressive story” that generations talk about, and it is entrenched in the conscience of souls before the books are seen, and before they are shown in visual scenes. Hence, we should review our souls from time to time, and weighing our concerns and energies in the balance of goodness, until we measure the size of our giving, and the size of the effect that we left. Then we narrate with the love of the hadiths of the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, and write them in small scraps, we compare our effect according to the prophetic guidance. Undoubtedly, our souls will rise towards goodness if we do well -contemplation. The Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, says: “Whoever is equal to one day is stupid.” And consider his saying, peace and blessings be upon him: “The well -known rhetoric protects the wrestler of badness, and the charity of the secret extinguishes the anger of the Lord, and the uterus link increases age.” (Al -Tabarani included it). The Almighty said in praise of the prophets: “They were rushing in good deeds.”
* Sometimes, negative feelings and annoying situations remain trapped in our souls, because we believe that we are well dealing with, while they are tingling ourselves and weakening our bid, and affecting the ties of love that brings us together, and even in the validity of our bodies. Here comes the decisive pause to change what we thought is correct, to correct the methods of confrontation that we did not improve, and to reconsider the hidden goals or attitudes of others.
It is a pause in which we put an end to the maleva, so our ages are not lost in sterile compliments. It is nice to keep the thread of the connection with the loyal, and if the relationship has some unintended inconveniences, we do not let it leave its impact on our souls, but rather we rush to filter the hearts so that we do not lose the companion of the impact of the impact. As for those who have become in our lives a “permanent source of inconvenience” with their disgraceful style that despises souls, it is better to preserve our safety from them, and we move away from their stations, and focus on what is in the bids of our lives.
A flash of hope
We are still delayed from investing “opportunities for giving”, and we indulge in empty pods and margins, and we are busy with gossip, and we live in the atmosphere of backbiting and gossip, and perhaps the atmosphere of sterile quarrels, until our souls are taking place from words that you did not mean, and from the positions you did not like. It is time to correct the path, and to reconsider, and if we make a mistake, we will continue to learn what we have. Our “charitable” project will remain the ambition that leads us to our goals, and to the “Paradise Station”, O God, inform us, O Lord.
