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Completion operations, appetite reduction injections, and surgical alternatives to adjust the course of food behavior, are legitimate methods used for the necessary cases that are narrowed by means of wellness. But what happens when these means turn into a “first option” to achieve a rapid weight loss without patience, or when young people refuse to wait for normal change through effort and perseverance? This impulsive rush towards healthy tools was the original to be used in emergency situations, which began to go beyond the limits of medicine to enter the depth of our story with the “human will”.
What happens is that we do not decrease our weights as much as we decrease our fundamental human value, that will that is built little by little by the decision, strengthens confrontation, and it is stranded by perseverance, when we facilitate the solution, we often cancel the road, and the way is the school of will.
The real problem is not in the same means, but in our psychological abuse with it. When we look at it as a brief way that goes beyond suffering, is relieved of pain, and gives a result without a moral cost. We – from where we do not feel – we are replaced by our awareness that escaping is better than treatment, surgical cut faster than behavioral gradients, and the injection that changes the body’s chemistry is first than education that changes human behavior with itself.
This pattern of thinking – which is characterized by the clinging to the worker, is leaked to all aspects of our lives, but rather entered into the core of our family, social, and psychological crises. For example: How many marital problem is “rapid divorce”? In order to surrender to a quick smuggler, and how many problems of children are screaming instead of patience for containing.
What stands behind all this? It is a fundamental tendency towards the fastest solutions, and erosion in the sense of faith in the effect of perseverance and the length of the soul, and the decline in deep thinking in favor of superficial emotions that produce a quick decision, but in fact, random is not conscious. In a social era, it feeds on short clips, quick results, and instant actions, the most important resource we have (will) is drained, that human energy that makes man able to say “no” to seduce comfort, and wait when he is provoked by rushing, and patience to do the mind for a conscious choice.
The problem is not, then, in the gastric calm tools, nor in a medicine that controls appetite, but rather in consolidating the mental pain that you see the pain is something that must be eliminated quickly, nothing through which a person is refined. In the depth of this mentality, it lies a risk of decision -making, and the fate of our future choices. When we believe – without awareness – that every problem must be resolved immediately, we will be more violent, fragile and less patience in front of our challenges (perhaps this explains the high divorce cases and the deterioration of parents’ relations with children). We do not want to intimidate, and do not criticize the resort to innovative scientific solutions at all, simply put our fingers on a wound that exceeds obesity to the inactivity of the will, and food to the poverty of determination.
The gastricity of the stomach and needles may decrease weight, but they may decrease our will, and the rapid divorce without insight the shortest methods of repetition of failure in the future, and screaming on children destroys mutual respect and connection.
Finally, why do we have the fragility of the will? Because the will grows in the womb of patience and consciousness, and is not measured by external superficial changes, but rather the depth of patience over the pain of a change in ourselves, so if we avoid its course, we are lost the value of man in us.
