Thursday 01/May/2025 – 03:12 PM
Dr. Nazir Ayyad, the Mufti of the Republic, received a question and mentioned to him: What is how children deal with their father who insults their mother? My father is a nervous man, and we always see him lengthening my mother and offended her at the least reasons in front of me and I all my brothers, which makes us sometimes offending him and shortening in righteousness and charity to him, what is the ruling on that, and what do we do towards him?
The Honorable Mufti said through the official website of the Egyptian Ifta House: The father has the right to righteousness and charity in all cases, and this right does not fall off with his abuse, or his bad behavior with the mother, and the children must advise him to virtue, and to choose for that appropriate time and the appropriate manner, while praying for him with righteousness and guidance, and if they are unable to do so, they can resort to the people of goodness and righteousness from relatives or others; In response to his misconduct.
Urging the honorable Sharia to the good ten of the spouses
He continued: It is legally established that Islam made familiarity, affection and mercy the basis on which the relationship between the spouses is built; The Almighty said:﴿ And from his signs to create for you from your souls, the wives of you to dwell on them and make between you a dedication and a good for you. They think [الروم: 21]; Imam al -Baghawi said in his “interpretation” (3/575, i. The Arab Heritage Revival House) said: [جعل -أي: الحق سبحانه وتعالى- بين الزوجين المودة والرحمة، فهما يتوادان ويتراحمان وما شيء أحب إلى أحدهما من الآخر من غير رحم بينهما] Ah.
He continued: The honorable Sharia urged the husband to improve the ten with his wife, and to cohabitize her with the virtue; Not to insult it, offend it, or harm it by saying or doing; The Almighty said:﴿ And they will be blessed with the well -known [النساء: 19]Imam Al -Qurtubi said in “Al -Jami for the Rulings of the Qur’an” (5/97, I. Dar Al -Kutub Al -Masria): [قوله تعالى: ﴿وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ﴾ أي: على ما أمر الله به من حسن المعاشرة. والخطاب للجميع… ولكن المراد بهذا الأمر في الأغلب الأزواج، وهو مثل قوله تعالى: ﴿فَإِمْسَاكٌ بِمَعْرُوفٍ﴾ [البقرة: 229]And that is the fulfillment of her right from dowry and alimony, and not to be tired in her face without guilt, and that it is a starting point in saying neither rude nor heavy nor a tendency to others]uh.
