Amal Muhammad Amin
The series of domestic violence continues, and we read every day a new news about a murder committed by the husband against his wife and sometimes the crime is prolonged, so what are the signs and indications that begin before the husband reaches the stage of violating lives?
There are early signs of violence that can save life. There is a group of psychological and behavioral indications and indications that may indicate that the husband is violent, and may constitute a real threat to his wife’s life. Here are the most prominent:
First: Early behavioral and emotional indicators:- extreme jealousy and pathological suspicion: monitor her movements, accuse her of betrayal without evidence.- Excessive control and control: controls her clothes, friends, work, or even the way of her speech. Social isolation: prevents her from communicating with the family or friends.- Stepse and unjustified anger: erupts for the most trivial causes and may break things. Verbal or continuous insults: reduce their value, insult, threat, or humiliation in front of others.
Second: dangerous indicators indicating the possibility of escalation to killing:- preceding physical violence: beating, strangling, or using sharp tools even if it does not cause a serious wound.- The threat of killing or suicide: an explicit or implicit threat, such as “if you left me, I will kill you or kill myself”. Harmful attempts.- psychological disorder or use of narcotic substances: especially if it is associated with violence seizures.
Third: Signs that he has already threatened or tried to harm:- The presence of physical signs that are not explained by the wife.- The permanent wife of the husband’s behavior “is compressed, not intended, I am the reason”. Or legal or psychological advisor.
* Ways to leave the wife from the violent husband’s house: 1. Secret preparation:- Never tell the husband with any intention to go out.- Collect important documents: ID card, passport, birth certificates, marriage leaves, bank cards, rental or ownership contracts, medicines, etc.- Prepare an emergency bag (you hide them at a girlfriend / close / trusted neighbors) that contain:- clothes for you and children. Important documents. Additional phone (if possible) .- Special medicines or supplies.
2. Choose the right time:- Choose a time when the husband is outside or asleep.- Make sure that the exit door is clear, and you can reach it quickly.- Do not take many things. Priority for safety, not for property.
3. Help and support: Connect a secret with:- A reliable friend or family member.
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5. Psychological and legal support:- Use a lawyer or legal authority to help you divorce, custody, alimony, etc.- Contact with a psychological specialist or social advisor to help you recover.
