Most of us talk to himself and those around him about his permanent and continuous search for calm, isolation and comfort, even if the period of leave, then to return to his daily tasks and complete the life of collective integration to receive his ear several voices at the same time, but it seems that what he talks about or expresses to others is something that does not exceed the theoretical side, and most of us are a lover of indulgence in In an empty restaurant, you will discover the truth!
Imagine that you went to a quiet luxurious restaurant and in the background of calm music, the waiter guided you to one of the tables and stayed close to you to fulfill any request from your requests, and began to wander with your eyesight throughout the restaurant, and you found that all tables are available, and calmness prevails in the place, theoretically it is assumed that you are in the appropriate place where you have happened, but what will happen is the exact opposite, because you will start the processes In front of you, eating is bad and the restaurant is known for bad food, the restaurant does not care about hygiene and perhaps there are poisoning cases that have happened and people boycott this store, the prices are not logical, we fell into the trap! Here, planning for the tactical withdrawal process begins, and as soon as the withdrawal plan succeeds, the immediate alternative will be a full restaurant and perhaps your name is on the waiting list in it and put you and those with you on the “reserve bench” close to the main door, then go to your table attached to it four other tables from all sides, then ask for four people to be able to withdraw the chairs for you and those with you He will ask you and those with you so that someone else can go out, not to mention the compact sounds of a large number of speakers in the restaurant, but you actually feel psychological comfort because you convinced yourself that you are in the right place, so do not search for hygiene and service and the fact that the food is fresh or not, and all of that under the slogan “The restaurant sells all meat and vegetables because of the large number of customers” and the truth is that the crowd is the one who gives you this impression.
Even in other places of shopping, congestion means that the goods cannot be left and we must invest the opportunity now and buy them, and the more crowded, the more our movement accelerates with the collection of the goods and the decision to buy, the congestion adopts an unannounced conviction among people of the quality of the product and the necessity of its acquisition, and most of us say within it, “Not all of these people stand in vain, they must know what we did not know And everything is known as we are always far from the scene. “Thus, converting converting into a certificate of quality and accreditation, while quiet places are places around which suspicions are hovering, and the quiet restaurant is accused of crimes against taste.
It seems that crowding for us has become a lifestyle, and that our need for calm and tranquility is a theoretical wish that collides with our lifestyle as soon as we try to achieve it, we are ready to stand in any queue in the hope of knowing the reason after that, but we are not ready to live minutes of calm in a calm place.
* Dean of the College of Law – Gulf University
