Raising children require a balance between confidence and awareness of their behavior. One of the important issues in this context is the tendency to exaggerate in good thought and abuse the children. This method may result in far -reaching effects on their psychological and social development and their future behavior.
When parents exaggerate in good thinking of their children, they may expect high performance that exceeds their mental abilities, which constitutes a great psychological pressure on them, and they suffer a constant feeling of anxiety or failure if they cannot meet these expectations. Likewise, sometimes overeating may ignore unacceptable behaviors or provide justifications for them, so children believe that all their actions are acceptable, which reduces the sense of responsibility. Whenever we treat our children with good thinking, we indirectly deprived them of developing the necessary adaptation skills to face life difficulties.
On the other side, we find a group of parents who exaggerate the misfortune of their children, which always feels that they are under observation or suspicion, even when they are honest and their confidence is affected by themselves. When we think of our bad children, we may reinforce negative behaviors, and for this they may start behaving according to these expectations, and the relationship between parents and children may determine where they feel incomprehensible, which leads them to move away from the family and search for acceptance in other places.
It is important that the parents be aware of the capabilities of their children and their limits so that they are commensurate with the son’s age and the level of his maturity, as real evaluation helps us to provide appropriate support without exaggeration in expectations, and instead we provide feedback to the children so that they are constructive and focus on behavior, not the person himself.
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Whenever we trusted our children and encouraged them to bear responsibility, we helped them build an independent and strong personality. The reasonable confidence encourages them to positive and take responsibility, and open and honest communication becomes the first key to understanding their needs through a healthy balance in our lives.
